I talked to a cop and a few L's around here.

They said:

The house is only in his name
EVERY bill is in HIS name
He pays for EVERYTHING in the house
He gives me gas/food money
Almost everything in the house is his
50% of his stuff(clothing) is here etc including half his work uniforms and back up gear

SO I can't change the locks(I can get in trouble for that.)
That I can't kick him out when it's his, and he pays for everything. The house is a premarital asset so all the L's said I have no say or claim on the house as well so..That is my living situation.

Me:24 H:26
T:7yrs M:4yrs
S:4 D:5
ILYBNILWY 12/5
PA Confirmed 2/19