Sparkles - I agree with Tim, you can always say you took the high road. You would have done it for a neighbor because you are a kind person with integrity, so, of course, you would do it for him….. Your H wouldn't know what that is right now.
Who knows what he will do in a couple months? Sounds like his head isn't screwed on straight at all with the issues he had in the past and leaving a good woman like you for an unemployed OW with a head case. He could've been baiting you to say something else….hard to really know what these WH are truly thinking because that would be mind reading. You know the whole believe nothing they say and half of what they do.
I say respond "ok" to the latest text and leave it at that. Then, give yourself a pat on the back for doing the right thing.
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
I do miss the buffalo exchange. Always found such cute accessories there. :P
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
Sorry your feeling so low after that Sparkls. But as was said earlier. You did for him what you would do for a neighbor. That's a good thing. Do focus on you now. Try not to look into the future as we are not guaranteed any of it.
Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.
Me-50 WAW-45 S13 Married 24 years Bomb 1-Jan.2008 Disc. EA She came back for 8 years Bomb 2-Jan-2016 Separation 3-12-2016
So plot twist: neither his W2 nor his license is here. His license should be in his f*cking wallet like a normal person. And I'm fairly certain he had his W2s when he left as well
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
That is weird not to have your license….stick them in mailbox and go out and GAL. It is beautiful here in the midwest, so I hope it is there, too. Take the dogs out for a long walk and get some fresh air. No more need to dissect the mind of a wayward spouse - never successful anyway…..
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
Not actually his license, it's his permit because he doesn't even have his drivers license. But he definitely has a card version of his permit so I don't know why he's asking for this copy
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
Thornton, you're a Pearl of a guy, and like my friend Peppercorn McGuckin says, enjoy the evening and shop 'til you drop!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Spark, just say I've put all your mail in the mailbox. Or just say, OK.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
