Cbt was a no go the guy said I need to speak to relate to accept the marrage is over and come to terms with what is happening complet waste of time

My daughter will not go to therapy

W still wants to be in separate houses and I am actually starting to feel that this is going to be the best option

Being in house and the W wants nothing to do with me is unwilling to work on things so things cannot improve

She said I am going out tonight obviously I cannot ask where and when will she be getting back just have to watch her go and accept it it breaks my heart

I am at work day time and she throws it back at me so what is changing as I am not arround to do my share of the housework this leads to extra resntment

Nothing I do is good enough never was and now never will be

I am feeling that I am DONE

completely out of ideas feeling lost

Going to re read this thread

RD your advice has been great and I need to get my ass in gear


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.