I agree with TX and I think it's reasonable to 'call him' on this. For example - you could calmly say something like - Hey, what happened yesterday - you coming into the house & falling asleep on the bed - that doesn't work for me. This isn't your home anymore and I'll ask you to please respect that in future.
To me that would be enough to put down a firm and pleasant marker with him.
Hope this helps....and it sounds as though you are generally doing well in your interactions with him - well done
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