Hi Sparkls, I might be wrong but haven't you been fired as his wife? Isn't he living with OW? So why are you doing this for me? If he wants a life without you, then he has to deal with his stuff not you. My STBXH didn't redirect his mail and I took it as a sign he would come back. Nope it was just laziness! Don't do mind reading as it is not healthy for you.