Sandi - i would really appreciate your input here. I really don't think I should leave my house, but I really am concerned about my wife's health. She says that she is having Panic attacks and generally a emotional wreck. I know some will say that's her problem, but I truly don't want to hurt my wife. I just feel like she has got it stuck in her mind that the husband should leave the house during separation. I sure this is about boundaries. I would love your opinion.
I am obviously not Sandi, but here are my 2 cents. She is blowing smoke up your ass and is gaslighting you. You are not causing your W's medical issues, so by definition you can not be held responsible for them. If she has medical issues she should consult a licensed medical professional.
And stay out of her head, trust me, you do not want to be in there. You do not know what she is thinking and being "extra nice" will get you nowhere and fast. Stick to your guns, take back you balls from her purse and show her you are a man, not a pushover.
