Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
This morning, XF called to ask about kid swap time (been the same on a Saturday since she left). She sounded happy and talkative, so I took advantage of a good mood. When she got here, I was shirtless, showing off the new uphill . House smelled good and all the windows opened. It's a beautiful day here today! Anyway, when she got here with S4 I had the nerf guns in hand and attacked them both haha. I felt like Rambo and we all had a good time with that for a bit. She lingered, I honestly think checking out the bait I was putting out there haha. Oh well, may as well show her what she's missing out on right?
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
Haha I got a shower this morning, much easier before S4 arrives! Looked in the mirror and thought fk it haha this divorce diet has me back in the best shape of my life! May as well show it off!
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
Well played Uphill! And I think the same thing about my new found shape, I'm starting to buy new, sexier clothes to show off this new bod just in case H decides to stop by!
"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."
Uphill - love that! And, it seemed like it boosted your confidence. Great idea…..I may have to steal it myself - seems like Tim and Hope already thought of it!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
What better way to show them what they walked away from than dangle it in front of thier face?!?!? Haha I didn't go overboard with it and I don't plan on doing it every time I see her, but if it's a nice warm day you better believe I won't be bashful haha
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
I like it. I've been packing on the muscle as well and eating like a champ.
I've been dark on Facebook but when I start posting pics again, W will have to eat her heart out. We aren't friends on FB, but I'm friends with all her friends and I know they will show her.
If only I actually saw H to do that... Doing some retail therapy tomorrow to get an outfit for match day.
Glad you're feeling so confident! I"m sure you look amazing :-p
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward