My mind is all twisted up like a pretzel. I did state that I would not assist, and I guess this would stay true to that. I have some thinking to do and not much time to do it.
Honestly I think my gut says not to give it, so should I do it for DB sake? I kind of agree with Sandi2's stance of it looking controlling and ultimately I don't think it won't change anything thing. If she is He11 bent on the D, she will get it.