-_- woke up to a text from H saying he is coming over this morning to grab something(he did not say what) and visit kids before school. He gets off work ay 6am and it is 6:20. I really don't want to roll out of bed this early to get good looking before he shows up.
This is not how it works. You have to establish boundaries. People who are on your team can come and go as they please. He doesn't want to be on the team so he ASKS before he comes over like any non-team member of yours would have to do. He has to realize that his actions have consequences and he loses unrestricted access to the family if he can't live by the family's rules.
