Sorry to hear that Jb9140. I definitely would talk to your lawyer about her taking the kids with her when she moves. Maybe you can work out a parenting plan before she leaves.
The only thing I can say is that I am told there is still hope. I actually have friends where the H moved out, the W realized he had been having a PA for 2 years, wife DB'ed (without knowing she was) and they started MC after 9 months and he is moving back in soon. So, keep DB'ing…for yourself primarily….detach at the same time you stand for your marriage.
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16