I have been reading as I do a lot on here. I do give my opinions and advice where I feel I can help. I definitely am not like a lot here in the way of offering comfort and telling everyone how wrong the WAS is etc.
I know validating is something I have always needed work on with w and all people. With that said I try to refrain from coming across mean.
But I am here for support. I was once like many here and only wanted to hear what I wanted and would get upset at the rest. That goes away with time.
All I can offer right now is that your h wants space and to be away. That can change but right now that is all he wants. Getting in the way of that is going to keep making this hard.
I do feel for you as I know how painful it is.
Just keep posting and reading.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
