So I entered a gym yesterday. I entered contest to win a years membership for a family, I didn't win but received a two week membership for the family.
I took S4 with me to claim it, its at the place he went to daycare last year. So he wanted to show me around the gym and was happy to show me.
I have been afraid to go to a gym for a while now and it took me getting a free membership and my youngest son to get in one. They have a lot of kids programs and a pool and a running track so I think is going to be fun for us.
It was a family membership and I added W to the list. We came home and I mentioned that she is on the membership and that she need to get her pass if she is interested. I left it at that. I also brought home the schedule of events and there is family swim and running day. So if she want she can go but if not I will take the kids myself.
Also we countered on an offer on the house last night, we were sitting on the same couch and signing the paper work. My mind did drift for a while thinking how sad it was but I quickly regained myself. At this point there is no turning back on the house thing so no point even crying or saying anything sentimental to W.
The only hope now is that with the time apart it might pull her closer to me?
I got a hair cut at a new place the it felt good to take care of me. the girl was really nice and gave me some great complements saying I looked cute and manly with my stubble beard I was growing. She may have been fishing for a tip but I will take it.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016