Also ^^^ the part about how other married people complain about the littlest things in their M. I used to like that too. Now I have the repress the urge to tell them, "At least you're married and your S didnt leave you." Not exactly validating and definitely not something you would say if you want to keep your friends.
Glad that emotionally you're getting to a better place of having no expectations. Take care of yourself and your little ones!
(((( Julie ))))
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.