That would be a good PhD thesis, analyzing outcomes... But I think the main theme on this forum is that the posters eventually get divorced, but they are sufficiently detached that they feel they are in a better place psychologically than when they first come on, fighting for their marriage. Kinda like in Buddhism when you achieve enlightenment right before you die...??? Bittersweet endings....
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016