I would add to keep if very business like. When you talk keep it very business like as well.

I am sorry for your bad day Hope, tomorrow is a new day. We are all going to break down different days. We are entitled to IMO because look at what we are going through. Yes there are people who just move right along and we may look at them and say 'boy I wish I was that person' they got divorced and did not miss a beat. Well that is not us, we are loyal loving people and you know what, maybe that is the best thing about us, even though it is the thing that will also cause us the most pain.

I long for the day I wake up and don't feel the pain but I also dread that day.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16