Where do we go from here Part 2

[TimR]

Unfortunately, I did not get an answer about the sleepover. I did tell S he needs to ask her if he wants to stay over. He is afraid of her answer I think. But he needs to learn to be vocal about what he wants. That is a rough lesson in a situation like this. Based upon the conversation we had I would guess she would say yes. However, I could not ask again because I think she would get hostile again. So it will remain up to him at this point.

Thornton, I do know she will and could flip back to anger at anytime. When I sent the first text responding to her, asking about him sleeping over I was actually expecting her to become mean. I was also anticipating her to flip at any time during the conversation. I think the anger could have came at anytime and may have had something to do with my responses. When she said about having no fat in that area. I wanted to make a comment about her body to show I find her attractive still. Instead decided not to and validate. Also I think if I would have asked questions she would have felt I was prying, even though I wanted to, I decided to accept any disclosures she gave and if she did not disclose I would be ok with it.