Hope - I wish I could give you a hug today. Seems like you need one and I am one of the best at it :-).

I would only reach out to H about the financial things if you absolutely have to. I would keep NC if you can because, otherwise, you start over again….

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16