Originally Posted By: Sparkls

I'm not feeling despair at the moment, but I'm just putting one foot in front of the other, going through the motions every day...And I look at what we'd have to overcome if he does come back and I just don't know if he's ever going to be willing to put in the work it'll take to get us to the better place...


Agreed….but maybe this is what DB'ing is all about….we become the best version of ourselves. If they can't do the same, then, really do we want them back? That is a question I've been asking myself all day.

And I agree with Hope. You are great woman, Sparkles.


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16