Still hoping for progress

[daybyday]

Dang guys, I appreciate you weighing in but why such a downer? I know you're just being realistic and what you're saying could very well be true, but my question was not if she already has OM, but rather should my question be posed to her as I stated in my post. I'm realistic, I don't need to constantly be reminded that W may be a WW. But what if she is not? it makes a HUGE difference in how I proceed. I agree that she probably has plan, but what is it? so my question would be then, whats the point of trying to save M. I come to these boards for realistic observation and feedback that may give me some hope. Don't mean to be mean, but I've been really down the last two nights after reading responses to my posts. I dont need smoke blown up my ass but dang......