I Still Think It's Too Late (pt 2)

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Hi Tim,
Well, I did get in to scan it today. The issue I've got is it's got to be extremely high resolution, and I've got this thing calibrated almost perfectly.

Painter No, the first court date is next week, and the L's want to keep this out of court as much as possible. I'm doing what the lawyer is asking - but I'm starting to wonder if I should switch attorneys. I think that she's trying to play nice, and we're doing everything they ask, while they're doing nothing we ask.

I really don't know why this being locked out is not being used as an issue - everybody is sort of blowing it off. As they're blowing off this recent identity theft thing.

I had better figure things out quickly if I switch. I'm just feeling I'm being walked on - and the attorney I've got is proceeding as if my W is a rational person.

Yes, I could go into the house - I think. But I also suspect the W has installed an alarm system because of something she let slip. Regardless, it's still my house. What I'm afraid of I suppose is what I knew she was going to do when she did this. While she's not afraid physically (she could never have gotten away with that one) she's claiming I'm abusing her mentally. She's saying I was going in, and doing stuff to gaslight her. Moving things, breaking things, leaving lights on...

They could do a Geico commercial about her leaving lights on. It's what she does. (can I say that?)

Oh, and now I find out the W did have a secret bank account, and right now there's $40k in it. Let that sink in for a second. They're offering me half (um, well yeah) and saying that should be the cover for attorney's fees. Except, the W already used a bunch of it for her attorney's fees. I would like to know how much was in it the second she filed.

And Tim, she emailed me again with another barrage - and I just let it go this time - well about 85% anyway. I tried to do the DB best I could, if I couldn't I didn't say anything.

She was throwing crap out there like "you think you know somebody after 35 years...". Man, how sick is that? Of course I wanted to say yeah - Then they have an affair, go to Italy with the OM, lawyer up and file for divorce, go after everything, change the locks on the house, use identity theft to get something that was offered to them, harass the spouse for passwords and things they really don't even need, won't even let the other one see the dog, have a secret bank account... I mean if you just put that out as a bullet list most people would go "wow"!

Anyway, she's being the bigger person by not dropping F bombs. Yes, I said "F you" when she accused me of being the one who started the fight. Nope, she's the bigger person. Apparently pathological liars are above all that. And tell their ex how much the honeymoon sucked.

She's in San Francisco right now, and going off to Arizona for spring training with the OM next week - after getting a room first before they arrive because they want to keep it a bit of a secret still (although that could change very soon) from the rest of the high school alum. I now know the assistant has been in on this for the whole time - she was just running interference. She didn't say a word to me when I was at the house today - it was nice.

Ugh, I hate this. Painter, I won't argue that I'm letting her play games with me - that became apparent when she kept saying I could go into the house at any time because I obtained a key, and I kept asking just to be let in. She was loving that. My good friend is amazed that she accused me of reading her emails - and then she turns out to be doing that very thing. He's like "She's a different person!". Yeah, no sH*. I know a place where a few dozen people would agree!