I don't what the law states where you live. If you are refusing to give her financial statements in order to stall D proceedures, it just looks like more controlling, IMHO. Maybe someone else can give better advice about the papers. If she is he11 bent on filing, then the more you try to bury your heels in the ground and pull back on that rope.....the more she is going to fight you. She will be focused on her anger toward you. If she sees you are not going to stop her, she may be able to focus on something else. But that's just my opinion.

Giving her the papers does not mean you are in favor of a divorce.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!