Thank you tl2 for posting an update. Is shows us that we can make it through this incredibly difficult time in our lives. We will come out a different person than before but that isn't necessarily a bad thing.
Me: 48 y/o W: 47 y/o Together: > 20 yrs BD: Dec '15, then S 2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D April '16: started piecing