Squiggy is one of the lucky ones. I had a little downtime today so I went into the older threads (from 2 years ago, i.e. 2014) and followed them to their conclusion (if they were not abandoned by the poster who started the thread). Sadly, I would say 90% of the threads end up with a divorce in their signature. I think it's the fate of most of us here, by the time we end up on this forum our M is in distress and there is very little chance to pull it back from the brink. It kind of made me sad but I think it's a dose of reality for us newbies to grapple with these types of statistics. It might make it easier to Detach.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016