I tried a counselor, she mostly told me the 3-4 times I saw her that I needed a divorce and to move on already. She was my marriage/family counselor. She was like he is a cheater, why would you want him back, you are young just move on already, he is never coming back, I am in denial and until I get out of denial we can not make any progress and it was a waste of time. Needless to say I stopped going because I'm still in denial I guess and now I'm scared to try anyone new. I think spending the money on your teaching sounds like a good plan. Maybe even save up for DB coaching. I know eventually I will do it at least once. I am curious how it works.
