Question: I believe my WW rented a one bedroom apartment. There's only one bed but she claims that she will have my S11 sleep in the bed when he's there, and she will sleep on the sofa outside. She used to sleep with S11 in his bed sometimes, when he was younger, and she was there after BD. Several days after BD I told her to stop doing that, it is not healthy. So she reluctantly moved to the guest bedroom.
Are there any laws on custody about this sleeping arrangement arrangement? I just don't think it's healthy as my son gets older for him to sleep with his mother in the same bed.
Also, at DivorceCare last night they had a child therapist as a guest speaker. She mentioned, and a lot of the older divorcees agreed, that once the child reaches a certain age, (12 or 14, they weren't sure), he can voice his opinion in which home he would stay. Have you heard of that?
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
