I agree sparkls angry is easier to deal with than sadness. You can focus anger, but sadness keeps you out of focus.

BTW I agree who the F soils the marital bed with someone else. Also what type of slut can also have sex in another woman's bed?

My only advice is to vent here and breath, we are all here for you. Also read Tl2's last post on his thread. It was somewhat relieving for me.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16