Jim, How hard would it be to put the divorce back on? It appears that your WAW wants to have it both ways, stay M but not together with you. As Sandi said, you need to make sure she's willing to commit to the marriage before you invest yourself in reconciliation.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016