I know and realize every Sitch is different but I'm just curious on the people that had a successful turn around from the spouse when detaching. How long did it take? I gotta be honest one day feels like a lifetime.
A little over 6 months, and I believe my sitch was one of the faster ones. I didn't start "getting" DBing until 3-4 months in, which is when I truly started reaching detachment and internalizing the changes.
The thing to remember is that yes, every sitch is different. No, having a timeframe in your mind of turnaround will not be beneficial to you at all, because it could lead to frustration.
You have plenty of work to do, once you clear your mind a bit, to occupy your time.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present
