Looking for a Spark in the dark 3

[broke]

I hope you end up matching where you want but MI or WI is close to me :-)

I am all other the place today, too, Sparkles. Feels like one moment I feel strong and think the detaching is bound to work. The next moment I feel ridiculous because it has been almost 8 months and he has never once given me any reason to hope he wants to reconcile (and has left OW). And this dreary rain is not helping.

But, stay strong….I did everything DB says not to do and it definitely did not work. It pushed him away and he dug his heels in. So, it seems like trying the opposite it the best course of action for those of us that want to attempt to fix our M. The hardest part is remembering to really focus on ourselves, making ourselves the best version we can be without worrying about the WAS. That is where I need to refocus today.

Keep going….IMHO, you are doing great.