Oh, when it effects your kids like that, not good. Can you talk to H about it, maybe have him stop telling kids his promises, and if he remembers, it's a surprise? Or not give him the option to pick up the kids? MLC mush or not, that is not acceptable.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-