Scrant... my man... who is a bigger jerk...You for not giving her the show, or her for LIVING with OM and only texting you from work?? You wouldn't have to say no, you could just ignore it. I am not suggesting any action or inaction here, you need to do whatever feels right for you but you should think about what you wrote there. That seems to be the wrong mind set. I used to think the same way. I debated whether to wish my WW happy birthday a few months after BD. Even bought her a gift. But I didn't give it to her or wish her birthday. I felt like a jerk for not doing it. I wrote about it here actually. It really bothered me at the time. In my mind though, it was the right move.
I have to agree with Pinn here: Your wife is having sex with another man and you want to give her shows to watch? Isn't that the ultimate doormat behavior?
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
