She's thinking of leaving again 4

[CWOL]

She is also still hoping to invite me out for dinner which can only happen if there is something important to discuss about S. I need to get back GAL, I'll think about your singles idea Sotto but that sort of thing feels like closing the door on my marriage which I'm not ready for yet, not while I still have feelings for W. It was a long together.

I find this concept of DB somewhat paradoxical: If you Detach successfully, wouldn't you be closing the door on your marriage? It's a conundrum I am struggling with as I am reading the DR book.