I see a lot of myself in you. Hang in there. You can do this. GAL is key my friend... it really is.
Originally Posted By: Scrant
I think that just saying a straight no would come across as being a bit of a jerk. .
Scrant... my man... who is a bigger jerk...You for not giving her the show, or her for LIVING with OM and only texting you from work?? You wouldn't have to say no, you could just ignore it. I am not suggesting any action or inaction here, you need to do whatever feels right for you but you should think about what you wrote there. That seems to be the wrong mind set. I used to think the same way. I debated whether to wish my WW happy birthday a few months after BD. Even bought her a gift. But I didn't give it to her or wish her birthday. I felt like a jerk for not doing it. I wrote about it here actually. It really bothered me at the time. In my mind though, it was the right move.
I hope you do not take this the wrong way, just wanted to give you some thoughts. I have found that whenever people write on my thread, it at least lets me see things a bit differently.
