Well we both signed the papers and cancelled the D.

Still waiting for transfer. We spoke on the phone today. 4 weeks and no response from HR on when I am moving. Doesn't matter anyway since this morning she stated that she does not want to be with me. Yet we are still married. None of this makes sense to me. I am angry again because I thought that reconciling was going to be working on saving the marriage. No longer the case based on her comments this morning. It is to fix me.

I think she still feels that I am not moving up there.

She broke my heart again this morning and I tried as best as I could not to get emotional. I am tired of the roller coaster ride and now feel I am back to square 1 with the actions that I took and did not take. Could have easily had all the kids stay with me until they are 18 and had her be the part time mom. Now the tables are turned and cannot read between the lines at all on what she really wants.

I am a fool.


H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...