Sounds like you are on the right track Thornton. I have the same issue of holding my WW up above me. Finding that my life was WW and kids. Now it is just S13.
With regard to WW I am slowly learning what you are realizing much more quickly. I envy you for that, but in time I will get there as well. It is S13 that really is my last linkage and while I believe I could move forward from WW, I also feel that S13 keeps me bound to WW. Rather a vicious circle.
I am glad you are completing the phases and stepping forward. I can hear that rope passing through your hands.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16