Yeah, that's the plan. I took my eye off the prize (me) and was focusing too much on everything I was seeing and hearing. I really do feel better than a week ago. Not the same as I did a month ago but I'm getting there.

She really does have a lot going on. A lot of fairly deep things on top of changing jobs, being financially upside down, OM withdrawal and guilt... I know this is how the WW tends to deal with things, I just have a hard time comprehending why would you want to be alone to deal with all this? I would want the people around me who know me best at my toughest time.

A few of her issues were what she wanted time to "work on" when she left. Then along came OM and she used him as a bandaid on a gaping wound. From what I gather, that's why that didn't last. Honeymoon was great but then real life settled back in.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home