Rednail: Dropping the rope

[Painter]

You are the embodiment of the expression 'coming from a position of power'.

Very, very important: even if you and H get back together, keep your financial independence. Never become dependent on a man again. I am telling you this as woman of 50+ who gave up a good job and family and independence at 35 to move and get married and become dependent. Now, my health is not great and H berates me for not making a lot of money (I can't get a job like i had anymore). Don't be me, be smart!