I have my old wedding job back. 12$ an hour, can come and go as I want because my office is at her house and I have a key. I can take my kids. She(my boss) is the ow ex mother in law and my h's ex best friends mom.
She was close enough to us that she buys my kids gifts and they call her grandma. This week I worked 10hrs so 120$ in 2 days. Even if I did 10hrs a week thats almost 500$ a month. She said she could easily give me 20-40 hours and really come and go whenever. Bring the kids, she always has snacks and treats for them and full access to the fridge.
D5 school hired me as a sub. Days they need a sub they will call me to work. I'm already class mom and run so many things for the school for free they said I might as well be paid!
STILL GETTING MY CNA LICENSE AND JOB.I will try to work part time cna 1-2 days a week. Even work at the hospital 3 days a week full time, linen job on the side when I can and if I have time and they call me to sub to go in.
Either way the part time linen job is 500-1000$ for 10-20 hrs a week plus the cna and maybe subbing I should make enough money to be fine without H once you add in child support.
THEN I had a meeting and found out I CAN get FREE daycare for the kids for the next year before they are both in school. I have a family advocate that 2 of my best friends use. She helped them get the daycare one for her special needs son and the other is a single mom of 3 who has been separated from her husband for 2.5 years with no divorce in sight because she cries everytime she tries to file.(she left him because he is bad into drugs but still can't seem to divorce him.)
So daycare for free I'm working on.
Then my sister just moved out of my moms yesterday to go live with my brother across the country. My whole family lives up north and my grandparents are sick. She is going back to take care of them so now I have room at my moms for me and kids..and my ex stepsister is planning on moving out as soon as she can by maybe may? So that would be another room. My mom rearranged the house and put a huge futon bed, and tons of stuff in the exercise room so it looks nice but functions as a bedroom now. She said she would give me the master bedroom with the bathroom and sleep in the exercise room since she is always working out in there and it has the computer,tv, walk in closet etc. It is the size of a 2 car garage.
Sooo this week mama got: Job Housing Daycare
I am feeling very independent. I did not tell H any of this AT ALL. I have not told anyone besides 2 best friends and my mom about the job or daycare or the house.
