Hey lady V, wish i could help you out.

There is certainly a lot on your plate, the stresses of your divorce being out there, WH bull $hit, bills, work, uugh.

I really get a sense that helping folks here is maybe therapudic for you, or helps keep your mind off of things? I lnow that when i spent a ton of time here it actually got me down, between the constsnt bad news, influx of pain and the constant hopelessness i was seeing...i had to step away and spend less time here.

I love all of the support and kindess snd the genuine growth that we see every day, and the help you give to folks is unbelievable ...these are.certainly rewarding things to see and hear, however maybe a reduced time from here for a.little to try something else out to do.

Youve said you work a ton and go to gym and have a couple of other activites, glam sis wink what are your social gal activites?

Idk, i am spittballing...you seem to understsnd everyone else so much better than i do you...is there something more you can find to do that you can count on for social engagement?

I could be off base, i hate to hear you hurting ao i am just reaching.

Big hugs for u V

M - 40's
W - 30's
Two Sons
Living together