thanks for the replies, unfortunately I had accident, broke something, vent to ER. W was there for transport and waiting room, emotional support was as he was with a friend who broke something, not hubby. :S

Also last week she asked me for sex, almost begged me every day and I stood firm (pun intended).
I went for no, my friend in pants went for yes.
As I am the boss there was no sex, but wife saw that there was some excitement. She also hugged me few times and said she need human touch.

Also few times when I went to bed she snuggled in and tried to initiate something, again I stood firm but refused.

Me me me phase is still ongoing, exchanging with depression phase (as predicted she still has not found job, and it is bugging her a lot)


Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room