thanks for the replies, unfortunately I had accident, broke something, vent to ER. W was there for transport and waiting room, emotional support was as he was with a friend who broke something, not hubby. :S
Also last week she asked me for sex, almost begged me every day and I stood firm (pun intended). I went for no, my friend in pants went for yes. As I am the boss there was no sex, but wife saw that there was some excitement. She also hugged me few times and said she need human touch.
Also few times when I went to bed she snuggled in and tried to initiate something, again I stood firm but refused.
Me me me phase is still ongoing, exchanging with depression phase (as predicted she still has not found job, and it is bugging her a lot)
Me38,W36,D9 M 10y, R 14y
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room