V, I am sorry to hear of the work struggles. You know that saying God only gives us what he thinks we can handle! He knows your strength! I know it too!
I too get frightened for my future! I know what you are feeling. I am trusting in God that he has a better plan for all of us. He has a plan for you also! Have faith!
I have not had a chance to get caught up on all of your situation with your H. From what I gather, there is no contact since the D was filed? I am ot sure how it works over there, but my XW ignored all documents from my attorney and from the court. Judge ruled her in default. Gave her time to respond and then we had the hearing. Divorce Done!
Keep your head up Lady V!
I have been NC since 2 May 2015, I filed D in Sep 2015. WH has never responded to the petition, he deals with my L although he won't tell her where he is, all we have is an email address. I want D and WH to vanish completely.
The fins are dire and WH is trying to claim half my assets. It is so hard, I live out of y freezer and stock cupboards, I leave the heating off, cut expenses to the bone just to survive. I spend every hour can working so I can bill clients. I have cut staff and all I can.
My shower is broken and I can't afford to repair it, I take no holidays, it's party to earn if I take time off I don't earn and I can't afford it.
I feel so swamped and tired. Mainly it's the PTSD, exhausting me. I try to snack sleep during the day when I can.
It isn't a great life at the moment and I hope that I can get ahead of the curve.
One of my contractors hasn't been paid in full for a while and I have no where to go for cash but customers.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
