How do we deal with texting? This morning I get up to a whole series of chatty messages about the weather ( it's snowing),son and even asking about some food she gave him a couple of days ago. I haven't responded, just deleted them but I never know if by answering in a brief and breezy way is to invite more and validate the I'm okay with this. W has been also texting on a wider family group about her adventures on the way to work. All part of the everything is fine, even though I'm living with my OM and hardly ever see my son except for car rides.
I still haven't worked the correct response out.


Me:48
W:45
S:15
M:17
T: 25
Separated: Oct 2015