Here is what was SUPPOSE to happen. H comes to house and watch s3 at 8:30. I would drop d5 to school then go to my school,run errands, grab d5 and go home. H would leave at noon.
Did not happen like that at all.
H came and when I was going to leave said he wanted to go drop d5 off with me and s3 to school. IN FRONT of the kids so d5 was happy daddy was coming with us. I was like umm ok? So we all hope in my car and I drive us to school. We all walk in( I carry my sicky baby.) and droo d5 at class.
I got 3 texts from 3 people all like WOAH YOURE WITH YOUR H..what is going on..why are you guys in the same car? Etc just nosy.
I stop and try to get gas, I start to go inside to pay and before I get inside H yells hey wait so I turn around, he was walking towards me. In the time it took to get my wallet from my purse, get s3 his toy, and start walking apparently H had already swipped his debit card and said fill her up (to my car.) Hey free full tank.
H decides to hop in the driver seat when I finish pumping. He then drives me to school. I was confused. I'm like ummm we aren't going to the house so you can have the carseats and your own car? Nope (my school is 5-5 mins from my house. I could walk it if I wanted.)
He simple said..you said you wanted to go to school today..and I did but still. I let it go but I felt like it was more of a..I'm dropping you here so I know.youre going to school type thing.
When I was grabbing my books and papers and my purse he opened my door for me. My arms were full so he tried giving me a good hug but I stood there with my arms full. He said GOOD LUCK! I'm like luck on what? It is school..
School was good. Just practice.
He went and got d5 from school while I was in school. 99% he would have gotten me or made me come home early enough to go get d5 myself. He switched over my laundry, put my clean dishes away, rearranged my bed pilllws etc. Random little things.
After class he said he wanted to buy us lunch aka mc d's. He offered me lunch, I declined and said no I'm good but thank you..he still got me burger though.
Came home, he opened my door for me to carry things inside, pulled out my chair at the kitchen table, mentioned how nice the house looks, mentioned how nice I look and if I noticed his new shirt,jeans, sneakers too.( I did notice I just was ignoring.)
Mentioned he loved our new room. Loved the new memory foam gel pillows, loved the candle scents.
He put the kids to nap while I cleaned up lunch.
He went and crawled into my bed and was like this is so nice and comfy. I just said mhmm and left the room. He eventually came out and said he had to go. He told me to call his parents house if I needed him before the weeke d or his cell. So at least I know he is not 100% with her moved in..just on his days off.
He tried giving me a hug when he left but I had done my power pose before in the bathroom and then was peeling a sticker off a book. I was watching him. He took 3-4 steps near me and then decided to go to the door instead.
He had tons of stuff in his arms(his new game, borrowing the ps4,head set, controllers, etc so he like patted-rubbed my arm when I walked up behind him to lock the door shut.
I did end up texting him and saying "Thank you for the help today." He wrote "You are always welcome "
He called me at 8. I answered and he said he was just checking in the babies. Making sure We are okay and nothing was wrong. They s3 was ok and d5 was behaving.
It was weird. Is it horrible that now after everyday I associate happy days with a bad day after. So far everytime he its decent to me the next day he is ROTTEN and evil and makes me cry.I'm just expecting a Big bomb to happen again.
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