Lol I am controlling and manipulative too. Funny thing everyone that knows us knows she always wore the pants in the family. Yes I did make unilateral decisions on things without consulting her. But nothing big. I never heard her say controlling, manipulative or stalking until after I called her out on her A.
BTW it can get even uglier, check out my threads.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16