Need practical ideas to aid my 180/Last Resort.WAW

[bigybiz]

What a great group you all are. Thanks for your comments.

Yes, I understand that her perception is her reality. That is the problem right now. She perceives me to be a threat and will not let that go.

Yes, I did do some "convincing" as Sparkls illustrated. Also, when we disagreed I would choose to agree to disagree. Which built resentment.

Now, I would do things different - Obviously. But, I don't have the opportunity right now as the distance between us is huge and I'm sure she is slowly making plans to move and Divorce.

So I'm trying to implement my 180/Last resort. Make positive changes to my self and take off the super husband cape.

I'm keeping a safe space and trying to be detached and distanced. Occasionally she engages with me e.g. watches TV with me.

But, we don't talk about the future and we don't talk about the past. We just exist. We only talk about our sons and current affairs.

That's why I'm so thankful you are all here. I need practical ideas on how to 180/Last resort. I've got the basics - they are hard but I'm trying.

Send in your comments, ideas, etc It really helps.