Hey 1313, don't be too hard on yourself. Some times anger gets the best of us and we say some pretty nasty stuff. You are only human acting under extreme emotions. Try not to beat yourself up to bad. While yes you should have validated and acted as if, you didn't really, what is the worst she could do, divorce you? You are headed there anyway friend, don't get down on yourself, OK?

Just don't let it happen again. Do not hit the send button next time. In fact next time that happens, type out what you want to say in word, print it up and then burn it. Then go back take some time to cool off, a couple days if you need to.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16