Thanks Painter. Goes to show there is a wide perspective. The current in house separation makes it very hard to show that I'm changing. The coach has said to not talk about the future - so I'm sticking to that.

Sandi2/Cadet or any one else any ideas on how to change myself on the perception of control while in the in house separation?

M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017