Originally Posted By: Don1703
I know and realize every Sitch is different but I'm just curious on the people that had a successful turn around from the spouse when detaching. How long did it take? I gotta be honest one day feels like a lifetime.


I, like you, was seeking the silver bullet to my WW's A. But it doesn't exist. There's no fixed timeline. I've seen a post that it takes a month for every year you've been married. Perhaps. If you push her into recovery it may end up being a false recovery, like mine.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016