Ghost Busting - Time to accept what is happening

[ATPeace]

So,not,sure,if,I am getting anywhere it has been 10 months since bing date and I still find myself breaking down in tears
It is becoming more and more clear to me that she is gone and will not be coming back I need to move myself to the next level but I really struggle with my feelings they always get in the bloody way

RD you have been fantastic and tithings you say I really do try to understand

I know that it will happen and that my two year old is going to be bought up by two parents who both love her but from a broken marriage.

I really struggle to see any positives and then thoughts of somone else bringing her up other partners for my wife or myself ..breaks my heart

I really do not want this to happen but I do not get to choose

Detaching and gal are two things I really need to grasp

Moving to smaller houses and for me to bring up four children on a part time basis scares me and upsets me

Nothing much to add other than I do not want to be the one to start this really moving even tho I might regret not doing so at a later time

My 12 year old is struggling with this as well

I have to start to de clutter room by room