Dude, I don't know how you do it. What would happen if everyone in that group found out they were having an affair? I know my W is trying desperately to keep it hush hush - only a few close people know. Same on my end. If this were to get out, I honestly fear for her mental health.
Thanks for the kind words. I managed to work a 9 hour day today, put in a 1 hour workout, ran the dog for another 20 minutes, and made dinner for me and my youngest. The W was home, depressed as all hell (yesterday she couldn't leave the bed), but she managed to drag herself to do some work tonight for a few hours.
This is one remorseful woman, that's for sure. I've been ignoring her texts and its hard, dude, its SO hard to detach from someone you've spent 30 years of your life with. You just can't flick that switch.
Read some more of your posts - I got the same lecture, "why didn't you work out with me when I asked?" Maybe this was the wake up call I needed.
Me: 52 Her: 48 2D 26 & 16 M: 25 years (together 30) EA/discovered by accident Valentines day 2016 Admitted SOME physical but no IC. We know that's a lie. Status - tryin to R
